长大

看到孩子们越长越大就会觉得我越来越老了喔。嗨。。。岁月不饶人呀！









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Teaching kid reading and homework really require patient+patient+ extra patient.

Your frustration will blast out if you feel your kids even simple words also don know how to read.

Just now my Lucas is doing his reading and been holding on my patient to read with him.

But when you read the same words with him over and over and over again and still he cant remember the words.. i simply scream at him how come he just so stupid to just remember this simple wording.

But later you cool down and think over again, you will think that actually to a primary one kids, all these simple words is just as hard adult learning words.

Learning is continuous. Reading is the only way to learn new words.

I need to keep reminding myself that we need to give myself and the kids more time to teach them.

A mother is never a easy job.




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自私的想法

自私是人的专利,但不要自利.

因为自利的人会为了达到目的而做出违背原则或伤害别人的事.

自私不是不好,但它是一种自我保护的行为.

但自私的人往往都不会受到人的喜欢.

其实, 我们都是受到这世界的污染才会变的自私自利

现在人们都是金钱上的奴隶,为了也是想过着舒服的生活和炫耀自己的成功或财富.

人连同情心也能利用在社交媒体.

到底社交媒体传出来的讯息有多少是你信的.

办可怜来买卖和得到捐款都利用可怜来把人牵进书脸.

利用FB 来攻击人也有. 

炫耀家庭的人也多的是.

真搞不明白为和要人去了解你家庭的事呀.你是要引人注目吧

 神经病!!!!

到头来不过是不自利的结论

living in a small small world

Have you seen someone who been living in his own small small world?

A person who talk alot but done little?

A person who play phone game till he totally immerse himself into that world.

Everyday holding the phone in his hand and chat like no one else beside him

The person who is beside him is just transparent to him/her

When he told you he do read psychology book and knows how to read you.

What is your view to him??

To my view, he is a person who wont show his true self to others. 

Even when he is talking wont be 100% truthiness 

He will covered himself very well.

Even parent wont get to see the real side of him.

Everyone had a dark side behind him which don want anyone know about it.

It just a matter of little or a lot.

The best way to protect oneself is don't gossip or talk bad words of anyone. 

Quite is the BEST WAY TO PROTECT ONSELF.

I study psychology before in my poly schooling time but i don't tell anyone who know me cause i know don't ever under estimate another person beside you.

You may not know who is playing with who at the end.

I am a quite person and i don talk much.

I just a listener to friend around me.

I don't get to meet complicated people around me because i am a true to myself . 

I am who i am, i don't pretend and says alot of things to prove who i am.

I willing to share my story to other as i also want other to be true to me 

I just want a simple life and family is good for me.

The Chainsmoker & Coldplay- Something Just Like This

One of my favourite song 

有感而发 3 孝顺

什么叫孝顺???

其实孝顺就是感恩,

感恩父母的对孩子的付出.

但如果你没看到父母对你的付出,你还会孝顺他们吗??

不懂咯!! 

从小我只知道自己管好自己就好.

但你看到你父亲不顾家,只会在外面捏花惹草,说一套做一套,在外面养小三.

你还会对这种地人感恩吗.
我的答安是"不" 

长大了也变的很独立, 有什么事情也不会寻求家人的意见.

所以有很多事我都是往心里摆不会跟人说的.

说穿也就是自己活在自己的小世界.

有感而发 2 << 自我反醒>>

<< 自我反醒>>

如果你看到你的小孩不尊敬你或对你的态度很差. 

大人们,你会不会自我反醒!!

小孩就像是镜子里的你,所做的行为都是在学着你的步伐.

只有你自己惭愧才也会经常自我检讨

要随时自我控制自己的脾气也要 学着有耐心的教小孩读书更同时传达正确处理的讯息给小孩子是件不容易的事.

但做母亲就是一件很不简单的差事.

还好我的小孩都以礼待人

所以我很注重小孩的品格.

在教育方面我就像是虎妈一直监督着小孩的行为.

只要行为稍为有点错或不对我就得马上纠正.

毕竟他们在外面的时间比在家里还要多, 难免因为社会和朋友的影响下而改变.

记得小孩都是所谓三岁定八十的.

有感而发 1 《人心》

人呀！

到底你身边的人到底是你懂她/他的吗？不管事亲人也好，朋友也好，家人也好都一样的。

如果连亲人都放个墙倒线在她/他面前又或者都带上各式各样的面具迎面而人，会不会活的很幸苦呀。

我周围的人我也看的好累呀！

有的扮可怜兮兮，

有的爱面子装有钱人，

有的爱便故事骗人,

也有无理取闹也有,

有的只活在自己的小世界，完全不想人去打扰她/他.。。。

而我的自我保护围墙就是不管听到什么也就不给予什么意见，也不加话。

所以很多时候我都是静静地在一旁聆听就好，不管是非。

你呢!!!!!!1

心理学问真的考到我了。

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Bought the seafood from outside and went to friend house to cook.

We no need to spend more than 1k and just $300++ we can enjoy a splendid nice food.

We brought 5 lobster, 10 big oyster, 2 large crab from indonesia and 6 Alaska crab leg.

Simply worth the value...


























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闲的没事做，来个自拍玩玩





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