Wednesday, May 31, 2017

living in a small small world


Have you seen someone who been living in his own small small world?

A person who talk alot but done little?

A person who play phone game till he totally immerse himself into that world.

Everyday holding the phone in his hand and chat like no one else beside him

The person who is beside him is just transparent to him/her


When he told you he do read psychology book and knows how to read you.

What is your view to him??

To my view, he is a person who wont show his true self to others. 

Even when he is talking wont be 100% truthiness 

He will covered himself very well.

Even parent wont get to see the real side of him.

Everyone had a dark side behind him which don want anyone know about it.

It just a matter of little or a lot.

The best way to protect oneself is don't gossip or talk bad words of anyone. 

Quite is the BEST WAY TO PROTECT ONSELF.


I study psychology before in my poly schooling time but i don't tell anyone who know me cause i know don't ever under estimate another person beside you.

You may not know who is playing with who at the end.

I am a quite person and i don talk much.

I just a listener to friend around me.

I don't get to meet complicated people around me because i am a true to myself . 

I am who i am, i don't pretend and says alot of things to prove who i am.

I willing to share my story to other as i also want other to be true to me 

I just want a simple life and family is good for me.












The Chainsmoker & Coldplay- Something Just Like This

One of my favourite song 



Thursday, May 25, 2017

有感而发 3 孝顺


什么叫孝顺???

其实孝顺就是感恩,

感恩父母的对孩子的付出.

但如果你没看到父母对你的付出,你还会孝顺他们吗??

不懂咯!! 

从小我只知道自己管好自己就好.

但你看到你父亲不顾家,只会在外面捏花惹草,说一套做一套,在外面养小三.

你还会对这种地人感恩吗.
我的答安是"不" 


长大了也变的很独立, 有什么事情也不会寻求家人的意见.

所以有很多事我都是往心里摆不会跟人说的.

说穿也就是自己活在自己的小世界.


Wednesday, May 24, 2017

有感而发 2 << 自我反醒>>


<< 自我反醒>>

如果你看到你的小孩不尊敬你或对你的态度很差. 

大人们,你会不会自我反醒!!

小孩就像是镜子里的你,所做的行为都是在学着你的步伐.


只有你自己惭愧才也会经常自我检讨

要随时自我控制自己的脾气也要 学着有耐心的教小孩读书更同时传达正确处理的讯息给小孩子是件不容易的事.

但做母亲就是一件很不简单的差事.


还好我的小孩都以礼待人

所以我很注重小孩的品格.

在教育方面我就像是虎妈一直监督着小孩的行为.

只要行为稍为有点错或不对我就得马上纠正.

毕竟他们在外面的时间比在家里还要多, 难免因为社会和朋友的影响下而改变.

记得小孩都是所谓三岁定八十的.




Tuesday, May 23, 2017

有感而发 1 《人心》

人呀!

到底你身边的人到底是你懂她/他的吗?不管事亲人也好,朋友也好,家人也好都一样的。

如果连亲人都放个墙倒线在她/他面前又或者都带上各式各样的面具迎面而人,会不会活的很幸苦呀。


我周围的人我也看的好累呀!

有的扮可怜兮兮,

有的爱面子装有钱人,

有的爱便故事骗人,

也有无理取闹也有,

有的只活在自己的小世界,完全不想人去打扰她/他.。。。

而我的自我保护围墙就是不管听到什么也就不给予什么意见,也不加话。

所以很多时候我都是静静地在一旁聆听就好,不管是非。

你呢!!!!!!1

心理学问真的考到我了。





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Bought the seafood from outside and went to friend house to cook.

We no need to spend more than 1k and just $300++ we can enjoy a splendid nice food.

We brought 5 lobster, 10 big oyster, 2 large crab from indonesia and 6 Alaska crab leg.

Simply worth the value...


























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Saturday, May 20, 2017

闲的没事做,来个自拍玩玩





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Friday, May 19, 2017

PSLE STRESS TIME......

PSLE left less than 5 months TIME...and counting down!!!


Im so stress for my son PSLE. Recently SA1 results is not that good. 

Maths fail, English and Chinese just above average mark. Science is still ok.

Really... it is so hard to teaching a child with no heart in their work. How???

I spent time going though their work and study with them but still no use.

I really don know how to motivate him in his study.

Im still lucky that my 2nd sons result is quite good even without i spend time teaching him. Sometime i also felt guilty for not providing enough time on him.


Lately my small son in Primary One also giving me trouble. He started telling lies to teacher and to me also. His lie is so perfect that we all being deceived my him. 

I still glad i can now spend quality of time with them so that it is still early detect and adjust their behavior in time before it get worse. Not like previously i spent most of the time at work and leave no time to the kids.

Kids behavior changes very fast during their primary school life, not like in kindergarten time. This may due to the environment changes and more social life with their friend or it may could be they could be have more power control of their pocket money. 







Tuesday, May 16, 2017


Chest pain during school PE


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Monday, May 8, 2017

<片頭曲> 星辰(张杰)

择天记 



星辰(张杰)


鹿晗 Lu Han, 

Korean Pop Exo's member, 
古装象也太美了吧.

作词:刘畅
作曲:谭旋
编曲:可可

当古老山川又重现 当昼夜交替在眼前
蠢蠢欲动的擂台谁狩猎
天象太乱何必解读 血脉相通何需占卜
大道三千不论生死劫数

等待 正邪的归属 不如 招摇一段经书
奈何 斗转星移我全看透 再一卷
追寻 生命的长河 磨尽的卑微有恃无恐
就算胜负越难测 越要谈风云变色

杳杳云归兮 平不息八方风雨 义富可敌国 日不落
生生凭顺意 何以心攻其魔 真情浴火 正气明智 炼化真果
血亮成星光 大不了痛心疾首 命悬在一线 谁救我
逆改天地约 一招一式的传说 太执著

有一行人惺惺相惜 有一段情字字锥心 有一种日月倾海负侠名
更多更详尽歌词 在 ※ Mojim.com 魔镜歌词网 
等待 正邪的归属 不如 招摇一段经书
奈何 斗转星移我全看透 再一卷
追寻 生命的长河 磨尽的卑微有恃无恐
就算胜负越难测 越要谈风云变色
杳杳云归兮 平不息八方风雨 义富可敌国 日不落
生生凭顺意 何以心攻其魔 真情浴火 正气明智 炼化真果
血亮成星光 大不了痛心疾首 命悬在一线 谁救我
逆改天地约 一招一式的传说 太执著

杳杳云归兮 平不息八方风雨 义富可敌国 日不落
生生凭顺意 何以心攻其魔 真情浴火 正气明智 炼化真果
血亮成星光 大不了痛心疾首 命悬在一线 谁救我
逆改天地约 一招一式的传说 太执著

风来星辰隔 万般情皆有你我 最后一滴血 是抉择
不求死中活 只求得 心剑破 天地玄机 钝锋清心炼化真我

江湖难认错 谁晓得该怎么说 固执和洒脱 都尝过
逆改天地约 一招一式的传说 生死刻 人间正道非传说

女人的真心话




男人吗,你们有没有问问你自己一年究竟有帮你老妈还是老婆做过几次家务? 现在的社会如过男人还是有那种观念家务是女人做的,那你就是大男人主义者。

请问女人跟了你你会觉得幸福吗?

可想而知现在的女生为和如此 现实都不想过着辛苦的日子. 女人又要做工还要照顾孩子,又要做家务,哪里会不累呀.

男人呀,你们只会埋怨.... 但是你们有何时把自己放在女人的角度里. 你们的累有女人累吗? 

悲哀!!